Re: Can't seem to join network
It might be as simple as making sure that all your computers are in the same workgroup. Check the workgroup name on all computers. Right click "Computer" choose properties on XP look under the "Computer Name" tab for the workgroup name, on Windows 7 Right click "Computer" choose properties at look at the area called Computer name, domain and workgroup settings, to adjust click the Change settings link. It needs to be the same across all network computers.
If you have accidently joined a "HomeGroup" with the Windows 7 PC, open up the Network and sharing center and click the HomeGroup link and choose leave home group. It doesn't work with downlevel clients like XP anyway.
To ease some of your pain a common username and password will generally help. So if you are logging on to the MEL-PC as username = "mel" and a password of "password" just make sure that, that username and password exists on the other computers you are trying to access, and that, that user has sufficent privledge levels to access those files or folders.
Also make sure you know how to configure zone alarm on all your computers to support trusts between network nodes otherwise sharing attempts will be misinterpreted as intrusion attempts and be blocked. Read the vendor documentation, or else uninstall zone alarm.
Keep us posted and good luck
Randy
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